The Note That Waits — Jocelyn Brown and the Power of the First Second

Rafi Mercer
2026-02-13T14:11:16+00:00

Excerpt:

Before the bassline finds its stride, there is a single sustained note that hangs in the air like a held breath. It is not rushed. Not thrown. It is placed. In that first second of the six-minute version of Somebody Else’s Guy, you hear confidence — the kind that doesn’t need to grab attention because it already owns the room. The groove will come. The chorus will lift. But first, the record waits. And in that waiting, it teaches us something about power: restraint is stronger than urgency.

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A six-minute lesson in restraint, desire, and the confidence to let a moment breathe.

By Rafi Mercer

The record does not rush.

Before the bassline finds its stride, before the chorus blooms into that unmistakable surge, there is a moment — a single sustained note that hangs in the air like a held breath.

It is the six-minute version of Somebody Else’s Guy. The 12-inch. The one designed for rooms, not radios.

And that opening second tells you everything.

In a world obsessed with hooks, with instant capture, with the algorithm’s demand that something happen immediately, this record begins by waiting. Jocelyn Brown lets the note linger. Not thrown. Not hurried. Placed.

You feel it before you analyse it.

That is confidence.

The extended mix understands something the radio edit never could — that tension is more powerful than impact. The bassline doesn’t crash in; it steps forward, elastic and self-assured. The percussion builds without shouting. The space around her voice is deliberate. You can hear the air. You can feel the room forming around it.

It is architecture.

In 1984, the 12-inch wasn’t indulgence. It was precision engineering for movement. The club was the laboratory. Records either breathed there or they suffocated. And this one breathes beautifully.

But the reason that first note works is not technical. It is emotional.

The lyric is morally complicated.
“I’m in love with somebody else’s guy.”

There is no apology in her delivery. No pleading. No shame. She states it plainly, as if naming a fact she has already come to terms with. The groove underneath is joyful, almost celebratory. That friction — desire inside discipline — is what makes the record electric.

And in the extended version, that friction has time to settle into your body.

The instrumental passages stretch. The backing vocals answer her like a church congregation reimagined under club lights. The bassline keeps walking forward. Not aggressive. Not desperate. Just moving.

If you listen properly — and that means standing still for a second before the chorus hits — you realise something important.

This song is not about taking something.
It is about owning a feeling.

That first sustained note at the beginning is the thesis statement. It says: I am not rushing. I am not chasing. I am here.

Restraint is power.

The luxury of listening is rarely found in excess. It is found in space. In allowing a moment to develop rather than forcing it. That opening second lingers because it trusts the room. It trusts the system. It trusts the listener.

How often do we trust anything long enough to let it unfold?

The six-minute mix rewards patience. The groove becomes hypnotic. You notice details you would otherwise miss — the snap of the snare, the warmth of the low end, the gospel training in her phrasing. It is a reminder that the dancefloor once valued build as much as drop.

And perhaps that is why it still feels modern.

We are surrounded by acceleration. Everything is edited for speed. Even our emotions are processed quickly — swipe, react, move on. But here is a record that begins by waiting. A record that asks you to lean in, not scroll past.

Play the first 45 seconds again.
Not casually. Intentionally.

Close your eyes.

Notice how little happens. Notice how much you feel.

That is the difference between hearing and listening.

When the chorus finally lifts, it is earned. The room rises because it has been allowed to gather itself. The bassline has settled into your spine. Her voice sits on top of the mix like it owns the space. And for a few minutes, desire, rhythm and self-possession exist in perfect alignment.

That is not nostalgia. That is design.

The extended version reminds us that the most powerful moments are often the ones that hesitate. The ones that do not compete for attention but command it quietly.

A single note.
A word.
A moment lingering.

Sometimes the first second tells you whether something is real.

And this one still is.